Buddha's way

by Peskind, Steve

Advocate

No. 738 07/22/97

P11

Copyright by Advocate


Section: Viewpoint WHEN ASKED TO SUM UP BUDDHA'S TEACHING IN ONE WORD, the great 20th-century teacher the Karmapa responded, "Change." The idea that truth and change are not enemies but friends is pervasive in Buddhist thought. It extends even to the ongoing evaluation of Buddhist tradition itself--as was demonstrated in June when the Dalai Lama of Tibet, a worldwide spokesman for Buddha's way, was questioned about Buddhist teaching on homosexuality. In his own writings the Dalai Lama has defined sexual misconduct as behavior not conducive to full awakening, freedom, and peace of mind. When asked about homosexual behavior, the Dalai Lama, with no personal animosity toward gay people, has responded that Buddhist tradition also considers as sexual misconduct certain "inappropriate partners, organs, times, and places." Inappropriate partners, he has explained, include men for men and women for women. Organs "not intended for sex" are the mouth, anus, and "using one's hand." Like the Buddha himself, however, the Dalai Lama encourages Buddhist practitioners to question the truth and consequences of all traditional teachings. "Be a lamp unto yourself," the Buddha instructed. In Buddha's way, moral ethics are not dictated from God in heaven. A supposedly infallible spiritual authority, such as the Catholic pope, does not exist--not even in the person of the Dalai Lama. Participating in a June 11 meeting with the Dalai Lama and six other gay and lesbian scholars and activists, I asked him directly, "If the Buddha is our teacher, where and when did he teach that homosexual partners are inappropriate, that homosexual behavior is sexual misconduct?" The Dalai Lama candidly responded, "I don't know." Lourdes Arguelles, a Cuban-born lesbian Buddhist, asked, "What is the origin of the teachings on inappropriate organs?" Again he replied, "I don't know." (Can you imagine the pope saying "I don't know" to such questions?) It's clear that since the Dalai Lama was unable to provide a foundation for these doctrines, they are, to say the least, questionable. He went on to say that some sexual-misconduct codes may have been left over from ancient India and the social mores of that time. While honoring Buddhist tradition, he called for a deeper investigation of the origin of Buddhist scriptural teachings on sexual conduct. Avidly interested in science, he noted that homosexual behavior occurs among animals. Tinku Ali Ishtiaq, a Muslim from Bangladesh and a board member of the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission, piped up, "Yes! Even among intelligent animals!" The Dalai Lama laughed heartily. He then urged us to take our questions and concerns to the world's Buddhist communities and leaders. Soon after our meeting the Dalai Lama issued a press release from the Office of Tibet opposing "violence and discrimination based on sexual orientation" and urging "full recognition of human rights for all." Traditional Buddhist teaching on sexual misconduct has not yet changed. We cannot control religious tradition and politics. We cannot control psychological and physical violence born of delusion. But Buddha's way is not about the control of suffering; it's about responding honestly, with open awareness to suffering. Our only freedom as human beings is in the fullness and integrity of our response. When one perceives or finds harm or unfair discrimination embedded in a spiritual tradition, one shouldn't walk away. No one can hide on a meditation cushion or in a pew or in another branch of the same tradition, particularly a tradition emphasizing the interrelatedness of all beings. We can only be in the truth of who we are and respond from this truth. ~~~~~~~~ By Steve Peskind Peskind is coordinator of the San Francisco-based Buddhist AIDS Project. -------------------